Happy Valentines Day

Roses are red

Violets are blue

Loving you is one of the most beautiful things I get to do

A bit cheesy, but so fucking true

Happy Valentines Day!!

After years and years of failed relationships with the same general theme, I finally had that astronomical AHA moment!! I played the mother role in my prior relationships, always trying to fix the other person. I then realized that trying to fix someone outside of myself was, in fact, an indication that I thought I had to fix myself!

Ultimately this led me to realize that I AM NOT BROKEN, and didn't need to be fixed, which meant that I no longer felt the need to try and fix anyone else. My mantra became...

I AM NOT BROKEN

I AM BEAUTIFUL, WHOLE & UNIQUE

The greatest thing about it is that none of us are broken! We are all beautiful, whole, and unique! My AHA moment gave me a whole new perspective on how I viewed myself, which enabled me to grow to levels where I could connect deeper, stay present, trust, accept, and be in gratitude. It opened the gateway to understanding and tapping into my divine feminine.

I gave back to myself everything that I wanted from another. I created healthy boundaries, set core values, and realized my self-worth. The number one relationship REALLY does begin with yourself, and when you stop looking externally for what you can give back to yourself, that is when a new relationship will show up.

Much Love,

Lauren